Date: 2018-02-07 07:38
I have to say, I fumbled a lot, and acted a little crazy when I first started dating again. All the things you talk about in your book, your blog, your teleconference, I did. I was the role model for girls guys hate to date!
For example, if you have the slightest doubt about someone, you can easily just end the date, go home, log in and find someone else. Is that a good thing, or is it degrading the dating scene? (could be different between age groups, or cities vs. towns, or gay vs. straight)
I absolutely can 8767 t stand the taste or smell of bananas. They make me nauseous. I 8767 m not a picky eater Rocky Mountain Oysters, Frog Legs, insects, whatever, I 8767 ll eat it. As long as there 8767 s no banana involved.
In my opinion, as a guy, the free sites aren't worth pursing. Most of the time you'll be lucky to get any kind of response. The paid sites are a far better experience once you figure out how to best present yourself online (and transition to an in-person meeting rapidly). However, there is still not enough incentive for women to be more proactive in the process.
It 8767 s true to an extent but you can 8767 t automatically assume that just because someone says she likes to travel, she is materialistic. First, who doesn 8767 t like to travel? We all do. Secondly, this doesn 8767 t mean that she expects you to pay for everything or for her share. Lastly, there are different types of travel some are very costly, while others don 8767 t require that much money. Not every vacation requires a 65 hour flight and a luxury hotel. A quick getaway in a car for a night or two can also be considered a getaway.
You burn up countless hours with your friends, who assure you that he didn 8767 t deserve you, that he 8767 s intimidated by you, that he 8767 s an emotionally unavailable player who 8767 s afraid of commitment.
I think any smart woman or man, is looking for someone who just "gets them" and you know what that, the odds of finding that is pretty low (especially online). It's probably easier finding a match through work or social situations. Life ain't easy.
You need to grow up and stop letting possible lovely matches pass you by. If they are great catches, they will be taken by the next guy who knows that a few years don't matter. While you continue being lonely.
Beentheredonethat sums it up perfectly..i dont even need to add anything to what he has said here..point on no joke...ive seen and experienced and witnessed all he has stated here...anything more i say would be superfluous...take heed and follow his advice and safe yourself lots of headache and wasted time and energy lol... cheers!
It scares me how close I came to not meeting him, because I used to follow a stupid rule of not being the first to talk to people online. I agree with Tim if you want to find the right life partner, you need to explore all your options and keep an open mind. Even if my current scenario never eventuates into anything, I got to meet someone completely awesome, who I know without any doubt likes me for my personality and that 8767 s worth everything in itself.