Date: 2018-02-11 05:27
A generic profile that doesn't say much or says the wrong things will be overlooked by the very people you truly hope to connect with. There are lots of quality singles online. If you hope to meet one of them, speak to them, not the masses!
Why do you think you can get away with misreporting your age/height/weight by a factor of 696? Because you don't see other people as fully sentient. You've spent 965 hours thinking about why you'd potentially stop seeing someone but zero hours thinking about why someone might dump you. That's because you don't see other people as people -- you see them as props, here to supplement the existence of the One True Human. That's a tough pill to swallow, but here's a full glass of context to help wash it down: It's so common that there's even a word (" sonder ") to describe the belated realization that other people exist in the same way you do. Because they do.
I surveyed 65 girls that use online dating and they all agreed. What girl in her right mind would want to date a guy with a username like this:
M y fundamental approach to profile writing is to show not tell. This means demonstrating who you are by what you do. The opening paragraph has three parts the setup + the problem + the fix.
Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. -Eleanor Roosevelt
Never never never give up. -Winston Churchill
The best way out is always through. -Robert Frost
Every moment is a fresh beginning. -. Eliot
Every strike brings me closer to the next home run. -Babe Ruth
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. -Walter Bagehot
I’ve always loved the idea of not being what people expect me to be. -Dita von Teese
A Marine is the modern day Knight, so what better name than MikeInShiningArmor?! Using the positive association girls have with finding their Knight In Shining Armor.
However, this doesn’t mean you should write a novel about yourself or include a laundry list of things you require in a man. Be selective and purposeful about what you write.
I loooove to sing Luther Vandross songs. Also, I would love to be blessed with the lady of my life. Want to know more??? Well, that can 8767 t happen unless you contact me. Hate playing games??!! Hate being told lies??!! Well, come on I 8767 M YOUR MAN!!!YOU NEED THIS in your life!!! PEACE & BLESSINGS!!! You still haven’t messaged me yet??!! LET 8767 S GO CHOP, CHOP!!!! (smile) MAY GOD BLESS YOU INDEED!! I receive messages frequently but I do respond quickly. XOXOXOXO applause:
8. Never divulge too much personal information. Your profile is being read by strangers. They shouldn’t be able to identify your specific place of work, home address, last name or personal contact information from your profile. Be careful to screen your photos, too: Don’t upload a pic of yourself in front of your new home, for example.
Once it was: “Boy meets Girl,” and, depending on circumstance, “Boy gets (or does not get) Girl.” Now, it’s Boy posts profile. Girl posts profile. Profile does or does not pique interest. Maybe Boy and Girl meet—or maybe they don’t, and if they do, do Boy and Girl live up to their profiles and live happily ever after?