Date: 2018-02-12 01:05
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I’ll be the first to admit – online dating can be addicting – especially when you’re getting a lot of attention. There IS a temptation, for both men and women, to try to continually “trade up”. But the whole point of dating – for most of us, anyway – is to find one person that makes you want to quit altogether.
In this stage your goal is just to address the first three assumptions that your ex-girlfriend has. You can show her how things will be different later when you are speaking to each other regularly.
I 8767 ve been ridiculously happy with my new boo so you can imagine my panic when I had a dream about my ex while I was staying over with my guy! I literally woke up in a sweat and was hyperventilating because my brain was freaking out. It wasn 8767 t a sex dream. It was worse. In this dream, my ex managed to get all of our mutual friends together to throw me a surprise party. Then he appeared out of nowhere to ask me to get back together by proposing to me. WTF?!
Look, I can say I feel more confident than ever before but it’s more than that. Working with Evan has helped me to really value myself and to be myself when I am dating. This is priceless. It’s not perfect but I have come a thousand miles from where I was and feel so lucky.
You could try once more building a connection and if it doesn't work out, continue with NC again. Bear in mind that if you could make changes to your life (go out with coworkers, etc), she may do the same as well. As to whether cancelling on you at the last minute was out of spite or that she really had no choice, is something only you would know for sure.
I decided that whatever his problem was, that I would no longer make it my problem- and yes, I genuinely loved him, but enough is enough! It took me many years to finally pull the pin and absolutely know that no matter how good the good times are- there is no real commitment or consistency. It is likely that he will never change.